Showing posts with label Relationships. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Relationships. Show all posts

Sunday, November 29, 2015

WHAT WILL BE YOUR LEGACY?

As professionals we are often focused on the work that we have to accomplish and rarely do we take the time to reflect on the impact made on the lives that we've touched. At times it is difficult to fit this in our busy schedules but it is imperative we make reflection a priority.

We work in a fast paced environment where immediate results are the norm. Often we tend to make decisions that are either erroneous or irrelevant resulting in catastrophic situations that could have been easily prevented. Nevertheless we should persist to do what is right!



A few weeks ago I was at an event for a good friend. One who was with me through my most difficult time. She taught me a lot about the profession and relationships. I was flabbergasted at her accomplishments! Why? She lived what she preached and managed to remain extremely humble. You could feel the love, respect, and admiration at the function. She truly touched lives.


So let me ask.....what will be your legacy? How have you impacted the lives around you? Are you just focused on surviving each day? Does your work extend beyond your present circumstances? Do you just do things to please people around you or because it is right?

Have a Great Week!

Petreno


Sunday, April 26, 2015

How Can We Create Safe Havens for Our Children?

A few days ago I witnessed a brawl among several students. I was impressed with the manner in which it was addressed by other peers who got involved in separating the parties. This was true citizenship! How can we create safe havens for our children?


One would have thought that schools would be immune from violence. However, this is not the case! Over the years we have heard of school shootings, mass massacre, and kidnappings. Why is the school no longer safe? How does this impact teaching and learning? Can learning take place in environments that are unsafe?

According to Maslow, the need for safety is imperative before self actualization can be achieved. This then require schools to pay close attention in creating an environment that is conducive to learning. The school has become a microcosm of society. As a result the schools will have to come up with novel ways to ensure that students feel safe. In some schools this is elusive. Is it then dependent on the adults in the schools to ensure that a safe haven is created?

The task becomes even more overwhelming in our inner city schools. Some schools have shown that the establishment of strong relationships with the community, parents, and students will impact safety. While in others safety is an issue and can be strongly correlated to the climate and adults' expectations of students in the building. Can this be the answer? If expectations are changed......can a safe haven be created?

What are your thoughts?

Petreno





Sunday, December 21, 2014

It's All About Giving!

We live in a fast paced world which thrives on immediate results. Information can be transmitted in mere seconds and results are expected in a similar manner. In most cases the needs of people who are involved in the process are often forgotten!

It is indeed a harsh realization. The people who are instrumental in making things happen despite hardships and challenges are overlooked and the focus becomes increased productivity, accountability, and results. 

This is no different in the schools! Teachers are demanded to give more time and effort to their craft without the proper supports. They may also work in situations where their creativity is stifled and there is no hope for true professional development. However, they are and will be held accountable! Ultimately this leads to frustration, anger, teacher burnout, and low morale which will significantly impact success.

How can we strive to change this?

The answer lies in the way we treat and value people. It is imperative that people's needs are considered when decisions are made that will affect the work that they are expected to do. It's all about GIVING!

In creating an atmosphere of giving and relationships based on trust and respect we will realize the magically powers we possess in transforming our circumstances and realizing not only our common goals but those personal as well. It is in the giving that we receive.

As we prepare for this holiday season let us remember that It's All About Giving!


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Petreno